Tirmidhi Book 47, Hadith 3343

حَدَّثَنَا هَارُونُ بْنُ إِسْحَاق الْهَمْدَانِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ زَمْعَةَ، قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَوْمًا يَذْكُرُ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَهَا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ إِذِ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا سورة الشمس آية 12 انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَارِمٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ. (حديث مرفوع) (حديث موقوف) ثُمَّ سَمِعْتُهُ يَذْكُرُ النِّسَاءَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ إِلَامَ يَعْمِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ فَيَجْلِدُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ وَلَعَلَّهُ أَنْ يُضَاجِعَهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ إِلَامَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى:‏‏‏‏ هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ.

Abdullah bin Zam’ah said: “One day, I heard the Prophet while he was mentioning the she-camel and the one who killed her. He said: ‘When their most wicked went forth.’ A strong and mighty man who was invincible among his tribe, like Zam’ah, went forth for her.’ Then I heard him mentioning the women, so he said: ‘One of you should not lash his wife as a slave is lashed, for perhaps he will lay with her at the end of the day.’” He said: “Then he advised against laughing when passing gas, he said: ‘One of you should not laugh at what he himself does.’”