Sahih Muslim Book - 11, Hadith - 2165

وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِى شَيْبَةَ وَزُهَيْرُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ جَمِيعًا عَنْ أَبِى مُعَاوِيَةَ - قَالَ زُهَيْرٌ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَازِمٍ - حَدَّثَنَا عَاصِمٌ عَنْ حَفْصَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ قَالَتْ لَمَّا نَزَلَتْ هَذِهِ الآيَةُ (يُبَايِعْنَكَ عَلَى أَنْ لاَ يُشْرِكْنَ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا) (وَلاَ يَعْصِينَكَ فِى مَعْرُوفٍ) قَالَتْ كَانَ مِنْهُ النِّيَاحَةُ. قَالَتْ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِلاَّ آلَ فُلاَنٍ فَإِنَّهُمْ كَانُوا أَسْعَدُونِى فِى الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ فَلاَ بُدَّ لِى مِنْ أَنْ أُسْعِدَهُمْ. فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ -صلى الله عليه وسلم- « إِلاَّ آلَ فُلاَنٍ ».

It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said: "When the verse: ...pledge, that they will not associate anything in worship with Allah", "...and that they will not disobey you in Ma'ruf was revealed, that included (refraining from) wailing. I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, except for the family of so-and-so; they used to help me (in wailing) during the Jahiliyyah, so I have to help them now. The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said: 'Except for the family of so-and-so."'