Sahih Muslim Book - 17, Hadith - 3637

حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُعَاذٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبِى حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ مُحَارِبٍ عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً فَقَالَ لِى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ -صلى الله عليه وسلم- « هَلْ تَزَوَّجْتَ ». قُلْتُ نَعَمْ. قَالَ « أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ». قُلْتُ ثَيِّبًا. قَالَ « فَأَيْنَ أَنْتَ مِنَ الْعَذَارَى وَلِعَابِهَا ». قَالَ شُعْبَةُ فَذَكَرْتُهُ لِعَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ فَقَالَ قَدْ سَمِعْتُهُ مِنْ جَابِرٍ وَإِنَّمَا قَالَ « فَهَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ »

It was narrated that Jabir bin 'Abdullah said: "I married a woman and the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said to me: 'Have you gotten married?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'A virgin or a previously-married woman?' I said: 'A previously-married woman.' He said: 'What about virgins and playing with them?"' Shu'bah said: "I mentioned this to 'Amr bin Dinar and he said: 'I heard it from Jabir, but he said: "Why not a young virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?"